Many of us will look for love with our heart. You look for that feeling that lifts you up and carries you throughout your day. It is great to find that feeling in a relationship; however, you can’t just look for a partner with your heart. You have to use your brain too. You have to ask yourself, is this really going to work out? How compatible are we? What do I look for and does she have these qualities? Distance? Will we be able to pull it off?
In a serious relationship, you need to be able to think both with your brain and your heart.
To all searching for a partner, I wish you luck.
Photo Post // 10th July 2011 // 12,630 notes
Not just ladies, everyone can be happier being themselves.
is one of the hardest things to heal. Recently I have been comforting a friend over a break up. She was torn up in different ways. Emotionally, she wanted to be happy again. Mentally, she was worried about what people would think and say. And physically, she wasn’t eating much.
I told her that she was the only in control of her life, she was the only one who could possibly make herself happy again. First, she needed to come to terms with what happened and accept it. Then to slowly put the past behind her and learn how to move on. She shouldn’t care about what other people say because in reality, it doesn’t matter, she is who she is and what people say will not change that.
Be strong. Talk with your friends when you lose sight of happiness.
Before I die, I want to ________________________.
I want to accept all people and try and understand them.
What would you want to do?
Strong emotions will influence you to make decisions that you would not normally make. During these times, it will be hard but try, try your best to hold in that outburst. Wait until you have cooled your head and calmed down to make a decision. This can be hard, specially with parents, bosses, or anyone else who tells you what to do all the time.
Once you have learned to do this, you will be a better person. You won’t have to go back on you words or say something you regret. The people around you will appreciate you more and in general, you will be happier and a better overall person.
What we want,
We can’t always get.
What we need,
We don’t always want.
Try to focus on your needs. You don’t really NEED that new purse, or those new shoes. What you need, is to work hard and be successful in life to get what you want.
Good advice, may not be what you want to hear. However when you recognize it for its logic and not your emotions, grit your teeth and do the right thing.
Life is full of hardships, trials, and challenges that wear you down and tire you out, but if you can see clearly what lies ahead then forge ahead my friend.